Mom or Dad?

  1. animesempai in Search of TRUE LOVE and HAPPINESS
    Trying to Survive in Everyday Life

    hello guys well in my past forum topic I always choose personal subjects but right now im chosing family....Hey I know we have different culture here so in this way we can find out which of us have a family bonding with there parents....well please dont use the word daddy's little angel or mama's boy (other similar words) to avoid misundertanding.....I putting this topic to know have much you love your parents...do you like or mom or dad? are you have happy with your mom? or do feel sad when dad's around this are some common idea thats usually pops up when we are alone with our parents.. i know some of may feel bitter or uneasy ness to put some comments well its ok but at least this a small step to face what lies ahead......( mam im to serious again)...........

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    1. Otaku_Fox in Shadow Realm
      Revolution Is Wuts for Dinner

      Tell the truth I like both of my parents. I don't prefer one over the other.

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    1. animesempai in Search of TRUE LOVE and HAPPINESS
      Trying to Survive in Everyday Life

      Good to hear that Fox_kun well i do love my parents both in some way i love more my mon than my dad well its not like im being unfair to dad. Most of the time i can tell my mom everything my crush, likes and even in making decision i sometimes find myself consulting with my mom.......all my secrets and dreams well to my mom she knows everything about me rather than my dad........hey honestly its hard for me to say i love my mom nor dad directly i wonder why but its so easy when i love a girl strange dont you think?

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    1. naruto1023 in in your face
      chain gang solider

      i like my parents both . but when they piss me off screw u !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! oops sorry inside thought lol

    1. randomdudett in Canada
      Student

      Gone through a lot...hmmmm. I guess I pick both, they both have done equal amounts to support me in their own different ways. That's what makes me love the qith the equal amount.

      True, with my mom I could talk bout anything and be more open with, but my dad helps me with the little things. And as I say a lot of littles makes a lot. So I love my momma and ma dadda the same~

    1. infinite_sunshine in moreno valley, california
      Modern Swinger (high school graduate)

      i can't really relate to this topic because i've lived with my grandmother most of my life....my mom is in the military, so i dont see much of her, though i have live with her before(it sucked)....i don't talk to my dad at all because i dont like him...so, that's that....

    1. randomdudett in Canada
      Student

      infinite_sunshine wrote:
      i can't really relate to this topic because i've lived with my grandmother most of my life....my mom is in the military, so i dont see much of her, though i have live with her before(it sucked)....i don't talk to my dad at all because i dont like him...so, that's that....

      wow...dark past..but come to think of it, I love my grans too..she da best man~ No problem being with my grandma since that's who i usually stay with 5/6 of my life =D

    1. Kosmo in Mvusd
      Let Darkness be your friend and ingulf your being in the eternal darkness

      IM Neutrall with my parents

    1. animesempai in Search of TRUE LOVE and HAPPINESS
      Trying to Survive in Everyday Life

      wow Miss Sunshine you finally open up....i love my grandparents too but your lucky cause you live with them (grandparents) for me i only see them when there are family reunion i never experience to long talk with my grandma nor grandpa (both on mother and father side) most of the time my grandparents taking care of with my cousins......

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    1. AnNA_bAnaNA_09 in USA
      summer of '08'

      i love both of my parents but i actually like my dad as a person. hes nice, funny, annoying, supportive, easy going, flexible, lets me express myself and i can talk or ask just about nething w/ him.....mom on the other hand is just nagging and rude and doesnt listen 2 me :{

    1. ladyydianna in Canada
      Highschool student

      Not my father because he left when I was one. I cant feel anything for a stranger. I mean I know who he is and I see him a few times its jsut that hes a stranger that about it. My mom....I guess....I dont know.....my life has been rough and life hasent been great for me because of my mom...seems bitter all over...theres been a lot of harsh times....my mom's strict...loveing I guess....but she's really angry at times and takes it out on me. Plus I was treated like a grown up at a very young age. Having to deal with lectures about how no ones going to be thier for you when Im gone. My mom calls it independace. She says that Im giving you the hard life for you to survive on your own. But I mostly see the harsh side of her. I deal with her pain and I get alot of put downs from my mom getting a low self eestem and think negative things alot. At the same time Im a positive person and my mom ways teached me how to be strong. If you have a mom like mine it will be hard to have a close or open relationship about things. Theres so many rules I have to fallow. And i go by it. Even if my mom physically and verbally abuse me. (Well use to phyically)....Im still smiling the next...honestly...I love my mom but Im just questiong myself how I really feel...as I said it bitter sweet...........

    1. dyavray in cogneto
      College Student

      I love them both equally but there are points where i like one more than another depending on the circumstances leading up to that day.

    1. animesempai in Search of TRUE LOVE and HAPPINESS
      Trying to Survive in Everyday Life

      I can relate to you Lady D my mom was like that when im young and My dad well he doesnt leave us but goes away for work to support us. So in my younger years i dont have and father son bond with my dad.At Age 4 she teaches me how to read and write forcefully geez talk about barbarian stuff hahaha. At age 5 I already knew how to cook rice (without using rice cooker) old fashion. She always tell at lot of stuff sometimes I memorize every word what my mom says (due repeation) AS a kid I do punish a lot (well strict parental consent)pain makes a good education (wow talk about ruled with a iron hand) But thanks to her i can finally stand alone. Im basically knew a lot of house work (learn how to cook, sew, laundry etc. well except ironing) But my mom when she punish me (by means of force or verbal)she immediately console me and try explaining why done that...try to imagine that it was all part harsh traning..........

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    1. hanmae in disaster city
      procrastinator

      i like both my mom and dad. although my mom and i usually argue, we get along just fine when it comes to other things, especially girly stuff, shopping etc. personality wise, i get long very well with my dad. mybe because we're the same in most ways. like i excel in arts the same way he does. we both like going to the movies or go on a movie marathon at home. so, i think,it's just equal really.

    1. claymore_angel29 in boulevard of broken dreams and hearts.
      mangaka.

      my mom.i can talk to her with ease.but im not really close with my mother.both my parents are travellers.they're not here so i live with my nanny.but i dont get lonely w/o them.i dont live with my relatives either,i dont like them.

    1. animesempai in Search of TRUE LOVE and HAPPINESS
      Trying to Survive in Everyday Life

      wow your posting a lot of comment recently and most of them came from me! thanks

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